A December award for people who rarely ask for help.

Every year, our members nominate people who put others first through hard times of their own, vote on who is most in need, and present the SPIF Award, a cash award from our members.

PRESENTED EVERY DECEMBER ✦ SECRETLY PAYING IT FORWARD ✦

How the SPIF Award works

One cycle every year, decided entirely by our members.

Members nominate

Every year, members nominate people in their own communities who are going through a difficult time and could use some help.

Members vote

After all the nominations are in, members vote on who is most in need and most deserving of the annual award.

The award, in December

The recipient is presented with a cash award from our members, money that can go a long way in their life.

Who we are

Volunteers from all across the nation, and a few soldiers overseas.

Not by changing the world, but by making a difference in someone’s world.

We believe we can make a big difference for people in our community, one person at a time. Our mission is to give financial help to people who go above and beyond for others, with little regard for their own hardships.

The people we select share the same qualities. They put others before themselves, and they rarely ask for help, even when it’s badly needed.

Past recipients

Every SPIF Award recipient was nominated by one of our members. These are three of their stories.

A devoted husband and father

“This is the kind of man this is, trying to do things for others even at a great sacrifice to himself.”

From his nomination

He was the life of the party and the older sibling others looked up to, and a few years earlier he had started his own business. In July 2015, stomach pains led to a biopsy and a diagnosis of neuroendocrine carcinoma, a rare cancer, and in his case an aggressive form. Chemo worked at first, then the cancer came back and spread. His insurer denied an expensive oral chemo, and by the time the family’s appeal won approval, his health had declined further. He lost much of his strength and weight, and had to give up his business.

Through it all, he kept mowing the lawns of a couple of elderly neighbors, first with a push mower, then with a used riding mower he had fixed up so he could rest two or three days and still take care of them.

A family shaken by cancer

“They are a great family that could definitely use all the help they can get.”

From their nomination

They met during her senior year of high school, married, and had three boys and a girl. At 24, she sat in a hospital waiting room with three young children while her husband lay in a coma with a mass in his brain. He came through it, began treatment, and kept putting his family first until he passed away on January 18, 2013.

Eight months later, their son, then 5, was diagnosed with a brain tumor, later found to be Stage 4 glioblastoma. He has had four surgeries, and you would never know it meeting him. He’s an avid 49ers fan like his dad, and he loves to dance. His mother had to set school aside, and she can’t work the hours her job needs while caring for four children and his many appointments.

A brave young boy facing the battle of his life

“It has been a long and trying road for all involved especially this young boy, but from all accounts they have kept their faith and been in good spirits through this entire process.”

From his nomination

A 13-year-old seventh grader felt pain in his leg after basketball practice. An x-ray showed bone loss, and an MRI, more tests, and a biopsy confirmed osteosarcoma, a bone cancer. Ten days later he began the first of many rounds of chemo. Limb salvage surgery removed about a third of his tibia, and he now wears two braces.

Chemo left his hearing compromised, and platelet transfusions led to a bleeding disorder called ITP, so his parents now track his platelet counts every day. His father works at a casino to make ends meet. His mother stays home with him and his two school-age sisters when they aren’t making the hour-and-a-half drive each way to the hospital.

Small steps to make a big difference

“It made a difference to that one.”

After a big storm, an old writer walked a beach covered with stranded starfish. Up ahead, a boy kept throwing them back into the sea. Once the sun was high, he explained, they would die. The man said there were tens of thousands, and the boy couldn’t possibly make much of a difference. The boy threw one more as far as he could, smiled, and gave him the answer above.

Adapted from The Star Thrower by Loren Eiseley (1907 to 1977)

Questions

What does SPIF stand for?

Secretly Paying It Forward.

Who are you, and why do this?

We’re a group of volunteers who believe we can make a big difference for people in our community, one person at a time.

How can I help?

Fill out the donation form on this page. You can give once or set up a monthly gift. The minimum is $3, and every bit helps.

Who receives the SPIF Award?

People our members nominate from their own communities: people facing hard times who put others first and rarely ask for help.

How are recipients chosen?

After all nominations are in, our members vote on who is most in need and most deserving of the annual award.

When is the award given?

In December, when the recipient is presented with a cash award from our members.

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